“There is no such thing as good or bad.” If you know me, you’ve likely heard me say this many times. But don’t misunderstand—I’m not saying that nothing matters. In fact, I believe everything carries meaning. The challenge is that we often limit our understanding of this meaning, creating a disconnect between individuals and the collective.
This disconnect becomes evident when we examine how people view the world.
(more…)Everything in our reality exists along a spectrum, or pole, where opposites are just varying degrees of the same thing. From an early age, we’re often reminded by those older than us to enjoy our youth because one day, we won’t have it anymore. We begin to associate youth with life itself, believing that to truly live, we must seize every moment. Over time, this idea can grow into an obsession with prolonging our lives.
But life doesn’t belong to any single person; it’s a shared experience, a collective energy that flows freely and eternally—like a river. I’ve often pondered the meaning of life and concluded that to truly live, we must also explore the opposite side of life’s pole: the concept of death.
(more…)Learning to Love Unconditionally: Embracing Connection Over Fear
Learning to love unconditionally is essential to human development. When we’re young, we find joy in things simply for the experience itself, without needing reasons or justifications. But as we grow, our egos and fears take shape, complicating our ability to love freely. This fear—the very thing we use to protect ourselves—often isolates us instead. I’ve seen this play out in relationships where two people, both yearning for connection, drift apart because they’re afraid of what loving openly might mean. Over time, their separation grows until they eventually seek that sense of belonging elsewhere. Yet, strangely, they may find themselves drawn back to each other, compelled to reconnect. What can we make of this cycle?
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Lights & Truth 